本文以台灣中產階級都會女同志在同性情慾實踐與親子關係維繫之間的折衝 與協商為分析對象，探討同志認同與原生家庭的動態互構與辯證關係，並指出在 理解台灣同志主體之認同實踐時，「現身」單一視角的不足之處。首先由跨國性 向（transnational sexuality)研究出發，回顧「同志現身」與「華人家庭」如何 經由「現代」相對於「傳統」的框架，被預設為靜態的二元對抗關係，進而耙梳 當代學者對於華人同志集體慾望「正常」的重新省思，指出華人同志協商家庭與 認同的行動邏輯，不僅呈現家庭關係與親屬角色在形塑同志認同上不可或分的意 義，也彰顯「常規」（normativity)的多元意涵與歷史變化。本文同時由女性主 義視角切入，凸顯在高度性別化的華人父權家庭親屬結構中，婚姻壓力與女性親 屬責任如何成為台灣女同志在橋接家庭與認同時的主要考量。奠基於這些學術討 論，本文旨在探討台灣現代化歷程中，蓬勃發展的女性主義意識形態與家庭婚姻 結構的劇烈變化，如何促使中產階級都會女同志基於其性別（女性）與親屬（女 兒）角色而發展出獨特的家庭對抗與協商策略，並指出在此脈絡中，以「關係」 互動（interactional)而非「現身」對抗（confrontational)的思維模式重新架構並 理解同性情慾認同實踐與異性戀家庭規範之關係的可能性。

Th s art cle analyzes the ways n wh ch m ddle class lesb an women n Ta wan negot ate parent-ch ld relat ons. It focuses on the complex and dynam c relat onsh p between the r sexual dent f cat on and relat ons w th fam ly of or g n n order to challenge the pr v leged status of the concept “com ng-out” n understand ng Ta wanese tongzhi dent ty format on. Start ng w th scholarsh p on transnat onal sexual ty, th s art cle f rst traces how “com ng-out” and “Ch nese fam ly” are opposed to each other through b nary d mens ons of “global-local” and “modern-trad t onal.” Th s art cle s also nformed by recent reflect ons on the collect ve des re of Ch nese tongzhi for “be ng normal,” wh ch not only d splays mult ple mean ngs of and h stor cal transformat on n fam ly as a heteronormat ve nst tut on, but also eluc dates how tongzhi subject v ty format on s nev tably entangled w th k n relat ons and respons b l ty. Th s art cle further h ghl ghts a fem n st perspect ve, as gendered d v s on n the Ch nese patr archal fam ly makes marr age pressure and women’s chang ng k n respons b l ty and status the pr nc ple concern for lesb an women who w sh to l ve the r fam ly l fe n concert w th the r sexual ty. Bu ld ng on th s scholarsh p, th s art cle ntends to further explore how Ta wanese m ddle-class lesb ans develop un que strateg es of confrontat on and negot at on accord ng to the r status of gender (woman) and k n (daughter). It emphas zes the poss b l ty of understand ng the relat onsh p between lesb an dent f cat on and heterosexual fam l al norms through the framework of relat onal nteract ons nstead of confrontat onal com ng-out. Th s s placed n the context of drast c and cont nuous change n the soc al-fam l al structure n contemporary Ta wan.